{"id":47350,"date":"2020-10-05T08:24:13","date_gmt":"2020-10-05T13:24:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/totfc.net\/?p=47350"},"modified":"2021-01-25T22:25:40","modified_gmt":"2021-01-26T03:25:40","slug":"new-father-brogging-024","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/totfc.net\/?p=47350","title":{"rendered":"New Father Brogging, #024"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"border-image alignnone wp-image-47351 \" src=\"http:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/growth-7-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"248\" srcset=\"http:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/growth-7-scaled.jpg 2560w, http:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/growth-7-300x124.jpg 300w, http:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/growth-7-1024x424.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/growth-7-768x318.jpg 768w, http:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/growth-7-1536x635.jpg 1536w, http:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/growth-7-2048x847.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Today marks seven months since my daughter was born.\u00a0 Since then, she\u2019s over doubled her birth weight and creeping closer and closer to ten inches grown.\u00a0 She\u2019s gone from being a NICU baby that struggled to feed from a bottle to being a strong independent infant that doesn\u2019t need mom or dad to hold the bottle for her to wolf down a full feed in eight minutes.\u00a0 She\u2019s now eating solids, and has been a very good eater thus far, consuming pretty much everything we\u2019ve put in front of her.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">It\u2019s difficult for me sometimes, to not get emotional over every little step she takes and the growth that we watch happening right in front of our very eyes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">But last night was a particularly difficult pill to swallow, as it was the first night in which mythical wife and I both slept apart from our child, as we have begun the transition into having her sleep in her own room.\u00a0 Monitored, obviously, but sleeping in a room outside of ours.\u00a0 The reality is that she has basically outgrown the Snoo bassinet that carried her throughout the first six months of her life, and she needs room to turn and maneuver, otherwise it leads to a very grumpy and unhappy fussy baby.\u00a0 Combined with teething, it led to what was basically the worst sleeping week of our lives over the last week and change.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Gradually working in her crib for naps has proven to be working that she can sleep in the crib, and it\u2019s proven that the crib and its space is proving beneficial to our child\u2019s sleep, so we finally pulled the trigger and had a few test nights where she stayed in the crib overnight, while I slept on the futon in the room as a safety net.\u00a0 It only took two nights to really prove that she was up for it, and as of last night, we had her sleep in her own room by herself for the first time.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">It was hard to not feel emotional going to sleep myself, watching her on a monitor, instead of knowing she were mere feet away, and I would be seconds away from swooping in to get her if there were any sort of discomfort or need to physically pick her up.\u00a0 I had some unpleasant flashbacks to the NICU days, where mythical wife and I only had the comfort of a webcam that had limited times in which it would be on, instead of 24\/7 real-life accessibility as we\u2019ve had over the last seven months.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Ultimately, we know this is for the best, and is the natural progression of growth for children.\u00a0 Obviously, she was never going to be sleeping in the same room with us forever, and it was only a matter of time before she\u2019d eventually be in her own room.\u00a0 This was always part of the plan.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Still, it doesn\u2019t change the fact that it makes me all sad and emo-ey knowing my child is growing so fast and it feels like it\u2019s only a matter of time before she\u2019s asking me for $100 at a time so she can buy some frivolous crap, or will eventually be asking me for advice on which insurance plan she should be picking at work.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Seven months have flown by, and it\u2019s going to be hard to not feel a little choked up when I have to pack up and move our $1,200 bassinet out of our bedroom and into storage.\u00a0 As much as I\u2019ll be glad to never stub my toes on the legs of it again soon, I\u2019m going to miss like hell, the days of our sweet little warm baby sleeping right next to our bed.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Today marks seven months since my daughter was born.\u00a0 Since then, she\u2019s over doubled her birth weight and creeping closer and closer to ten inches grown.\u00a0 She\u2019s gone from being a NICU baby that struggled to feed from a bottle to being a strong independent infant that doesn\u2019t need mom or dad to hold the &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/totfc.net\/?p=47350\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">New Father Brogging, 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