{"id":48241,"date":"2021-11-09T01:09:55","date_gmt":"2021-11-09T05:09:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/totfc.net\/?p=48241"},"modified":"2021-11-09T01:09:55","modified_gmt":"2021-11-09T05:09:55","slug":"2-under-2-my-second-is-basically-nuclear-gandhi-from-civilization-071","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/totfc.net\/?p=48241","title":{"rendered":"2 Under 2: My second is basically nuclear Gandhi from Civilization (#071)"},"content":{"rendered":"

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As much bitching and moaning about how hard being a dad is and how much my life sometimes feels like it\u2019s sucking because of my inability to cope with the stress of parenting, when my head is less foggy and slightly clearer, things really aren\u2019t that bad.\u00a0 <\/span>I\u2019m sure any dads who might stumble across my brog might interpret fatherhood as being the most arduous thing on the planet, but I have no regrets and I love my daughters and my family, no matter what I say or put in writing.<\/span><\/p>\n

All that said, as difficult as I might make my second daughter seem, things really have gotten better throughout her brief passage of time on this world.\u00a0 <\/span>The crippling colic is still happening, but instead of happening like 3-4 times a day, we\u2019re typically down to 1-2 really bad colic incidents, so with that in mind, I want to jump out of a window less these days than I did on the days when it was worse.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, if there\u2019s one thing that has remained a constant throughout, is that #2, really, really objects to the act of being put down to sleep, regardless of how much she might actually want or need it.\u00a0 <\/span>No matter if she\u2019s a sweet and cooing cherub two minutes prior, shortly after setting her head down in the bassinet and putting her into her sleep sack, when she realizes that I\u2019m trying to put her down for sleep, the fussing begins, ramps up and eventually turns to screaming, which either escalates into colic screaming, or just a whole lot of crying.\u00a0 <\/span>Eventually, hopefully, she tires herself out, latches onto the pacifier and then I can turn on the motion to the bassinet, where she eventually passes out.\u00a0 <\/span>This is where I exhale a massive sigh, and creep out of the room as quietly as possible.<\/span><\/p>\n

Attempting to put her down for naps, I\u2019ve begun referring to as going to war, because that\u2019s what it feels like, nearly every single time.\u00a0 <\/span>I\u2019ve basically realized that when it comes to sleepy time, #2 basically is Gandhi from the Civilization<\/i> game series, where he\u2019s nice and peaceful, but the second you deny him the technology for granaries or aqueducts, he goes completely ballistic and is declaring nuclear war on you in two seconds. \u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s pretty much what it feels like dealing with #2 when it comes to trying to put her down.\u00a0 <\/span>Attempting to get her to sleep is akin to telling Gandhi that he can\u2019t have my windmill, and therefore she declares nuclear war on me and screams her head off until I lose the game.<\/span><\/p>\n

One day, hopefully, this will pass, and I\u2019ll just be able to look back at a post like this and laugh and not want to cry myself from emotional scarring.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

As much bitching and moaning about how hard being a dad is and how much my life sometimes feels like it\u2019s sucking because of my inability to cope with the stress of parenting, when my head is less foggy and slightly clearer, things really aren\u2019t that bad.\u00a0 I\u2019m sure any dads who might stumble across … Continue reading 2 Under 2: My second is basically nuclear Gandhi from Civilization (#071)<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[100,193,192,105,19],"class_list":["post-48241","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-brog","tag-comparison","tag-dad","tag-kids","tag-rage","tag-video-games"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48241","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=48241"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48241\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":48243,"href":"http:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48241\/revisions\/48243"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=48241"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=48241"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=48241"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}