{"id":42362,"date":"2016-05-17T15:13:10","date_gmt":"2016-05-17T19:13:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/totfc.net\/?p=42362"},"modified":"2020-07-19T15:13:20","modified_gmt":"2020-07-19T19:13:20","slug":"i-dont-know-how-people-do-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/?p=42362","title":{"rendered":"I don\u2019t know how people do it"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"border-image alignnone wp-image-42363\" src=\"http:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/first-class-jerk-01-1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" srcset=\"https:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/first-class-jerk-01-1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/first-class-jerk-01-1024-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/first-class-jerk-01-1024-768x432.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">Lately, I\u2019ve been feeling kind of depressed and stressed about how I haven\u2019t really traveled or seen some particular friends or family in quite some time.\u00a0 Sure, I had a trip to Disney back in April, but almost at no point of that trip was I really able to sit back, relax, and kind of do nothing.\u00a0 I\u2019m not saying nothing is all I want to do, but there are times that I feel that I\u2019m pining for occasions where there is nothing really on the agenda but loose ideas, and little or no stress if any of these ideas are acted upon.\u00a0 But really, I\u2019m finding myself missing people I used to see on a pretty regular basis, and the number of days, weeks and months since I\u2019d seen them grows, leading to this perpetual cycle of feeling detached.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">What isn\u2019t helping the entire conundrum is the fact that I no longer have the ability to up and hop on any flight as I used to, and which is serving as impetus for writing this in the first place.\u00a0 I\u2019d like to travel and visit some friends or family pretty soon, but simply put, I just can\u2019t afford it, or find myself being able to stomach the cost of flying, without privileges.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">Frankly, I don\u2019t know how people do this, planning so far ahead in advance to get reasonable rates, and looking at $600+ round trips if one actually wanted to make a last-minute flight somewhere.\u00a0 <strong>I don\u2019t know how people do this<\/strong>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">Obviously, far too long, I\u2019ve been spoiled with the ability to get on flights as long as there were availability, and I enjoyed the luxury to great lengths.\u00a0 Dare I say, I would do just about anything to get them back honestly, and despite the fact that I like my current job a great deal, I think I wouldn\u2019t hesitate to leave them like yesterday\u2019s donuts if an opportunity with a major airline and the requisite flight benefits became available to me.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">But unless such an opportunity arises, I\u2019m back in the land of the ordinary, feeling completely incapable of falling back into line, and growing further depressed and dejected at the way things are now.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">The thing is, there was a stretch before I had my flight privileges that I still traveled very frequently and very conveniently.\u00a0 It was called a time in which <strong>AirTran still existed<\/strong>.\u00a0 Being the ever-growing budget carrier based out of Atlanta, I could reliably get decent round trips to a myriad of destinations I frequently traveled to, namely Washington-Dulles, so I could visit my family pretty often.\u00a0 AirTran was also good to hit up places like Richmond, where I have other family and friends, and although they were more seasonal routes, Boston and Seattle were cities in which I was able to capitalize on as well.\u00a0 Not to mention, they served the ever-required Las Vegas for affordable costs.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">Well, AirTran is now Southwest, and Southwest being a vastly larger carrier, the costs have grown relative to their size.\u00a0 Southwest flights, although convenient for those with luggage, and the capability to change itineraries around, have basically turned all my old sub-$150 give-or-take routes into these mind-boggling $250+ routes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">And that\u2019s just one carrier; all across the board, I have all these ideas of trips I\u2019d like to make, but no matter how much in advance I check, I\u2019m struggling to find any decent round trips to anywhere I\u2019d like to go, that isn\u2019t going to be pushing the cost of a video game system anymore.\u00a0 And I know I\u2019ve said that I\u2019m feeling mopey and depressed over it twice already, but add in this variable, and I\u2019m a miserable, brogging mess of a human that\u2019s feeling really dejected at the state of the travel industry, and I don\u2019t want to pay $300 fucking dollars for weekend trips.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">Instead, I\u2019m trapped in this rat race of signing up for newsletters and alerts from every airline, hoping to find some decent fucking fares to anywhere, and only getting a whole bunch of results that pull shit like \u201cOh, you don\u2019t want to return on Monday and forfeit a day of work, with vacation time you don\u2019t have?\u00a0 That\u2019ll be an extra $100 to return on Sunday at a convenient time then!\u201d\u00a0 Or, the fact that I can fly to places like Milwaukee, St. Louis or Orlando for $53 round trip, but Washington D.C., Dallas, or Richmond?\u00a0 That\u2019ll be $300, bitch.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">Eventually, I\u2019m going to end up biting the bullet and paying these exorbitant numbers, just because I\u2019m really missing some friends and family that much.\u00a0 But god damn will I be filled with burning resentment and disdain in the process.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Lately, I\u2019ve been feeling kind of depressed and stressed about how I haven\u2019t really traveled or seen some particular friends or family in quite some time.\u00a0 Sure, I had a trip to Disney back in April, but almost at no point of that trip was I really able to sit back, relax, and kind of &hellip; 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