{"id":42371,"date":"2016-05-23T17:37:38","date_gmt":"2016-05-23T21:37:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/totfc.net\/?p=42371"},"modified":"2020-07-19T17:37:48","modified_gmt":"2020-07-19T21:37:48","slug":"three-wrongs-dont-a-make-right","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/?p=42371","title":{"rendered":"Three wrongs don\u2019t a make right"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"border-image alignnone wp-image-42372\" src=\"http:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/etan-thomas-racism-incident.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"389\" height=\"334\" srcset=\"https:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/etan-thomas-racism-incident.png 1038w, https:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/etan-thomas-racism-incident-300x257.png 300w, https:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/etan-thomas-racism-incident-1024x878.png 1024w, https:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/etan-thomas-racism-incident-768x658.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 389px) 100vw, 389px\" \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ajc.com\/news\/news\/national\/former-basketball-player-calls-out-passenger-he-sa\/nrRbG\/\">This is where the kids say \u2018smh\u2019<\/a> \u2013 Former NBA player accuses woman of being a racist on social media because she refused to let him sit next to her on crowded train<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">I\u2019ve read this article several times over, and each time, I roll my eyes and judgingly criticize all parties involved, because it\u2019s ultimately a tremendously stupid story as a whole.\u00a0 However, because it elicited a response in my brain, to the brog go the thoughts!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">But long story short, former NBA player Etan Thomas takes to social media to accuse a woman of being a racist, because she didn\u2019t want him sitting next to her on a train with allegedly no open seats, despite the fact that it appears that he ended up sitting catty-corner to her anyway, because she claimed the seat was taken when he asked, but then made available the seat to a white man when he asked.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">Did he have reason to believe it was racially motivated?\u00a0 Absolutely.\u00a0 But <em>was it<\/em> racially motivated?\u00a0 Etan Thomas didn\u2019t definitively know, and frankly I don\u2019t think he had the right to make the accusations he did without a little bit more basis.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">But he did anyway, and then the whole incident manages to go even further downhill, taking an uncomfortable scenario into a downright ugly one.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">He probably shouldn\u2019t have inserted the race card when confronting woman<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">She shouldn\u2019t have brought up the \u201cblack guy she dated in college,\u201d much less acknowledged his engagement in the first place<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">He shouldn\u2019t have taken a photograph and posted it to social media<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">By my count that\u2019s three wrongs, but factor in the negligent fanboy conductor who didn\u2019t address the woman\u2019s concerns, and god knows what else wasn\u2019t mentioned by Thomas\u2019 cherry-picked recollection of events, and there\u2019s probably another wrong or two somewhere in the story that also occurred.\u00a0 Well no number of wrongs end up making a right, no matter how much \u201cawareness\u201d Etan Thomas wants to raise.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">I get it, if this woman did to me what she did to Thomas, I\u2019d probably think of her as a racist too.\u00a0 But unless I heard her start to have an animated conversation with the white guy about how relieved she is that he\u2019s sitting next to her instead of \u201csome chink\u201d or \u201csome n-word,\u201d then I would have absolutely no basis for an accusatory confrontation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">I\u2019d probably want to photograph her too, and lambast her on social media and\/or my brog, but I\u2019d have done it discreetly, like I were pretending to use my phone while taking a picture.\u00a0 And the difference is that I\u2019m a nobody, not a former NBA player, who might actually have real followers and more than six readers, even if he was a scrub that averaged 5.7 points throughout his 11-year career despite being a first-round draft pick.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">It would be funny if that\u2019s why she didn\u2019t want him to sit next to her; that she <em>did<\/em> recognize Etan Thomas, and thought \u201ceww, it\u2019s that scrub from the Wizards who was a first-round draft pick that never really amounted to anything,\u201d or maybe she was a Cavs or a Heat fan, or whomever else might have actually had a rivalry with the Wizards.\u00a0 Or maybe she didn\u2019t want a 6\u201910 behemoth, regardless of the color of their skin, sitting next to her, likely going to consume a tremendous amount of space, tower over her and make her feel claustrophobic.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">The point is, Etan Thomas had no confirmed reasons to accuse the woman racism, much less proceed to photograph and lambast her on social media, where the self-righteous The Internet will and has already begun to dissect the woman.\u00a0 The white guy, who had no clue and no intentional involvement in this whole situation, also becomes collateral damage to the indiscriminating hatred and criticism of The Internet.\u00a0 If I cared to keep tabs on this story, I\u2019d bet that if it hasn\u2019t already been done, this woman\u2019s identity will be revealed, and she\u2019s going to get griefed, on a baseless accusation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">I\u2019m obviously no legal expert, but I think she might be able to sue someone, if this happens.\u00a0 Honestly, if the white guy gets his life griefed for his inadvertent involvement in this shitshow, maybe he\u2019ll be able to sue someone.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">As for Etan Thomas, he\u2019s being portrayed as some sort of victim, in a bullshit situation. \u00a0For a supposed poet, he sure still writes pretty hood, based on his choice vernacular such as \u201cI\u2019mma\u201d and \u201cppl;\u201d Longfellow he is not, clearly.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">Also, the guy made $44 million dollars throughout his career, why the fuck is he riding trains?\u00a0\u00a0 Sure, I could make assumptions that he pissed away all his money like the large populous of professional athletes who do, and trains are the economical option for his newer, modest financial lifestyle.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">But I don\u2019t have any reasonable basis to make that kind of judgment.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This is where the kids say \u2018smh\u2019 \u2013 Former NBA player accuses woman of being a racist on social media because she refused to let him sit next to her on crowded train I\u2019ve read this article several times over, and each time, I roll my eyes and judgingly criticize all parties involved, because it\u2019s &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/totfc.net\/?p=42371\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Three wrongs don\u2019t a make right<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[45,15,89,156,49],"class_list":["post-42371","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-brog","tag-fail","tag-og","tag-racism","tag-social-media","tag-wtf"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42371","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=42371"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42371\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":42373,"href":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42371\/revisions\/42373"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=42371"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=42371"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=42371"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}