{"id":44145,"date":"2016-10-13T22:42:05","date_gmt":"2016-10-14T02:42:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/totfc.net\/?p=44145"},"modified":"2020-07-26T22:50:51","modified_gmt":"2020-07-27T02:50:51","slug":"visiting-the-motherland-2016","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/?p=44145","title":{"rendered":"Visiting the Motherland, 2016"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"border-image alignnone wp-image-43461 \" src=\"http:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/IMG_4782-1-e1595817674368.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"509\" height=\"288\" srcset=\"https:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/IMG_4782-1-e1595817674368.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/IMG_4782-1-e1595817674368-300x170.jpg 300w, https:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/IMG_4782-1-e1595817674368-768x434.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 509px) 100vw, 509px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">One of the greatest travesties in my life is that it took me this long to visit Korea.\u00a0 Frankly, there\u2019s an overarching travesty that it took me about as long to even cross an ocean in the first place, but the point remains as someone of Korean heritage and to some degree, upbringing, it does seem a little not right that I didn\u2019t once visit Korea once until I was 34 and well into my own as an adult.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">Admittedly, the idea of visiting Korea didn\u2019t intrigue me that much growing up.\u00a0 Being born in the United States as pretty much as American as American can be, this was always home to me.\u00a0 Neither of my parents really talked much about Korea growing up, nor did they ever really put any ideas in my head of wanting to go.\u00a0 Maybe we were just so dirt-poor when I was growing up that they didn\u2019t want to make any difficult promises to fulfill.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">A long time ago, there was an opportunity to go to Korea on some sort of church group; not that my entire family\u2019s been tremendously religious, but it was an economical means to get there.\u00a0 I\u2019ve always been kind of nihilistic about religion in the first place, so it didn\u2019t really interest me that much, and at that age, my priorities were vastly more interested in indulging in my no-school summer vacation, playing video games and being a slug at home.\u00a0 Ultimately, my dad and my sister went, and I\u2019ll always remember just how tan they were when they got home, and there\u2019s a photo of the two of them riding a horse that always stuck with me as symbolic of an opportunity that I probably missed out on because of my youthful stupidity.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">I\u2019m also ashamed to admit that like most nerds, I went through a very weeaboo-ey phase where everything Japan did was gold, compared to the shit everywhere else.\u00a0 I took Japanese in high school in addition to all the anime and J-culture I indulged in, and even to a point where I treated their stuff on a pedestal above even my own heritage.\u00a0 Obviously, I grew out of it, and developed a sense of nationalistic pride with age, but I\u2019m not going to deny that there was also a time in which I probably would have preferred to visit Japan over Korea for a first-ever trip to Asia.*<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">*<em>I should point out that I once said that Korea should be the first-ever Asian country I visited; how often times I forget that just a month prior on the European cruise, visiting Turkey, technically meant I set foot on Asia for the first time there, before I stepped foot in Korea<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">Thankfully, all was rectified recently.\u00a0 As my six readers might very well know, I\u2019ve just recently gotten back from Korea after a lengthy, nearly two-week stay in the Motherland.\u00a0 I think I\u2019m overcoming jetlag pretty quickly, on account of the fact that I stayed up for nearly 30 hours the day I flew back to the States, and have tried my best to get some good continuous sleep, and I think I\u2019m just generally resilient as balls when it comes to coping with fatigue.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">I understand if one wouldn\u2019t be interested what will probably be 2,000 more words and observations about Korea that might populate the rest of this post, so I\u2019ll boil it down initially: Korea was great.\u00a0 This was an incredible trip that I\u2019m so happy I took, and I absolutely loved visiting Korea and being immersed in the culture of my heritage.\u00a0 I enjoyed all of the places we visited, and I feel that I learned a good deal about my parents\u2019 home, the country, and accumulated a great deal of cultural experience seeing first-hand the differences between America and Korea.\u00a0 I indulged in a lot of sights, food and the national past-time of shopping until your feet beg for mercy, and there is absolutely no doubt in my mind that I look forward to the next time I can have the opportunity to visit again.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">You\u2019re more than welcome to stop right here with a boiled-down summary of Korea, but what kind of brogger would I be if I didn\u2019t elaborate on thoughts and observations using way more words and clich\u00e9s than necessary?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">Basically, all throughout my trip, I\u2019d jotted down notes and observations on my phone, because I don\u2019t want to forget things, or there are things that I know I\u2019m going to want to write about later.\u00a0 I don\u2019t know if this makes me a dedicated brogger, just an overly thorough nerd, perhaps both, but I don\u2019t regret doing it, and it makes recollecting on the 11 days spent in Korea that much easier to recount and give me some semblance of organized thoughts to barf words about.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-size: 12pt;\">Initially, I was going to try to encapsulate my trip into a singular post, but while trying to write it out, I realized that it was going to be longer than <em>Gone With the Wind<\/em>, and I didn\u2019t feel that I could hash out anything without feeling like I was making too long of a post.\u00a0 That being said, I chose to break down the trip into varying stories about my experiences, and one day, when my brog is back up, they\u2019ll be available for my six readers or anyone else to read.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One of the greatest travesties in my life is that it took me this long to visit Korea.\u00a0 Frankly, there\u2019s an overarching travesty that it took me about as long to even cross an ocean in the first place, but the point remains as someone of Korean heritage and to some degree, upbringing, it does &hellip; 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