{"id":48254,"date":"2021-11-14T23:15:40","date_gmt":"2021-11-15T04:15:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/totfc.net\/?p=48254"},"modified":"2025-11-14T19:27:11","modified_gmt":"2025-11-15T00:27:11","slug":"i-had-no-idea-it-would-so-satisfying","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/?p=48254","title":{"rendered":"I had no idea it would be so satisfying"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"p1\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-38300\" src=\"http:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sonicFthat.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"609\" height=\"144\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Last week, I had a job interview.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>It was from a company that had cold-called me from LinkedIn, so needless to say, I didn\u2019t have any particular interest in them upon finding out who they were and what they did.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>But they didn\u2019t bat an eye when I dropped some inflated salary requirements, because I wasn\u2019t really that interested, so I decided to take the interview anyway, because it would be good practice and who knows, maybe they would have wowed me in some way to make me reconsider.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">The interview had several warning flags from the onset, specifically the fact that one of the guys on the call, I recognized their name, and I knew our paths had crossed at some point because if nobody\u2019s ever told you, Atlanta isn\u2019t as big of a place as people think it is, which is why it\u2019s particularly important to burn your bridges with peril, because you just never know if you\u2019ll run into people again.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>I just couldn\u2019t place it, but I know that I knew this guy from somewhere.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>He didn\u2019t seem to indicate that he remembered me, either.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Second, the nature of the company practically bored me to tears.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Something about transaction technology, development of some apps and shit, and honestly, I was already hard leaning towards not wanting this job in the first place, since they had listed for a \u201cUX Graphic Designer,\u201d to which most people aren\u2019t aware, the two things aren\u2019t necessarily mutually exclusive, but there\u2019s a far bigger divide between the two than the working world is aware of.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Needless to say, the indication I got from the position is that the company doesn\u2019t know what they want, and mashed two disciplines together, hoping they\u2019d be able to find a singular person to do two jobs.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>But it also meant that for a company that doesn\u2019t know what they\u2019re looking for, I could\u2019ve either gotten into the door and coasted to a good salary, or I\u2019d fail to meet expectations that I wasn\u2019t aware of and be in a disadvantageous position.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">But it\u2019s the third strike where I completely checked out and definitively knew that I was going to turn this opportunity down: <b>the sample project<\/b>.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Basically, because \u201cthey wanted to get in my head and get a sense of my <i>style<\/i>,\u201d they wanted me to reimagine and redesign one of their landing pages, \u201cin my style.\u201d <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Basically do some work, for free.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>I have no problem with competency tests or assessments, because those are usually pretty quick, and can show a lot of insight.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>But to be assigned a multi-day project, for no payment?<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>No fucking way.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">In my mind, upon hearing this, I\u2019m basically saying, bitch, I\u2019ve got two kids and no time as it is, and you want me to do some fucking work for free?<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Fuck.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>That.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">*<i>no joke, I might not have written this post if I didn\u2019t realize it was great opportunity to use this Sonic gif I made eons ago because I actually do like it that much<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">I don\u2019t like my current job, but I really didn\u2019t like this job opportunity.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>I smiled and nodded for the rest of the interview, but my mind was already made up before we disconnected, there was no way I was going do any free work, and there was no way I was going to pursue this position.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">I\u2019ve never been in the position to where I had the opportunity to turn down an employer, so this was kind of an exciting chance for me.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Typically, like the vast majority of job seekers, we\u2019re just used to getting ghosted after an interview or a screen, because the working world is full of a bunch of spineless fucks who are afraid to tell people no, regardless of just how useful it would be to them.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>But I was in a position where I could turn the tables, and I didn\u2019t really know what to do.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">I mean, I could\u2019ve ghosted them, and after several days of no contact, they\u2019d ping me and ask to see my sample project, to which I\u2019d ghost the fuck out of them, as I\u2019d just been recently ghosted myself by another company.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Or, I could message the people I interviewed with, or the recruiter, and tell them that this cowboy doesn\u2019t work for free and they could go fuck themselves, and it\u2019s no wonder why their position wasn\u2019t filled, and was still on the table for 30+ days.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">In the end, I split the difference, and reached out to the recruiter the following day, and was just civil about it.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Thanked them for reaching out, told them to show my appreciation with those I interviewed with for their time, but I wasn\u2019t interested in the position, and to withdraw my candidacy.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Like I said, Atlanta\u2019s not the city to scorch the earth with, no matter how deserving some are.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">And despite taking a civil stance about it, I couldn\u2019t believe how satisfying it felt to actually tell a potential employer no for a change.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Job providers have had the advantageous position for so long, that I couldn\u2019t possibly pass up the opportunity to reject them for a change.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Still feeling smug about it, days later.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Anyway, it turns out that this guy worked for the state at the time I did, and I didn\u2019t leave there on particularly good terms, so it\u2019s all the better that I passed on this one.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>I would\u2019ve had to have reported to this guy, and if he had any connections or still knew people there, there\u2019s no guarantee that some false narratives about me could\u2019ve been put into his head, if there already weren\u2019t any. <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Either way, job searching hasn\u2019t been particularly positive for me, but at least I still have the wherewithal to avoid, really bad opportunities, instead of taking whatever just to get out of my current.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last week, I had a job interview.\u00a0 It was from a company that had cold-called me from LinkedIn, so needless to say, I didn\u2019t have any particular interest in them upon finding out who they were and what they did.\u00a0 But they didn\u2019t bat an eye when I dropped some inflated salary requirements, because I &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/totfc.net\/?p=48254\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">I had no idea it 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