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I should be happy and excited right now.\u00a0 <\/span>I have received some very good personal news.\u00a0 <\/span>But I\u2019m not.\u00a0 <\/span>I can\u2019t be, because parenting two under two is soul sucking draining and there\u2019s no room in my life for anything me, because I\u2019m dealing with two crying kids all fucking day every fucking day and I have no idea when it will ever get any easier.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n #2 sucks at sleeping and doesn\u2019t nap or stay asleep which already drains me daily, but has now devolved to where it encroaches into my one-on-one time with #1, because she\u2019s insisting on waking up earlier than ever, despite not getting any more nap time or night sleep, so I am literally handcuffed to her from the moment I wake up until the moment I go to bed.\u00a0 <\/span>And to think she had one really perfect day earlier in the week where she slept until 8, had two perfect naps, and didn\u2019t fight me Mortal Kombat when it came time to sleep. \u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n To make life any easier, #1 has apparently begun entering the terrible two phase where everything warrants crying and tantrums, and we\u2019re talking real tears and snot and screaming and shunning.\u00a0 <\/span>And there will be moments in the day where both kids are crying, fussing, screaming, or all of the above to where I just have to stop, stand there still, and contemplate that this is where my life is at, and wondering, what. the. fuck.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n Obviously I\u2019m not the only dad or any parent who\u2019s ever been in this situation, but I would really like to know how other dads have fared or handled this specific scenario of simultaneously raising two under two, in similar aged kids to my own.\u00a0 <\/span>I need to know I\u2019m not alone here, because I\u2019m constantly overwhelmed, constantly overworked, often miserable, and at times completely over being a parent and just wanting a fucking break that will never happen because two under two is too much to ask of anyone to alleviate me of and I can\u2019t rely on anyone and I don\u2019t know any two people or don\u2019t trust anyone to do a fraction of shit I do on a daily basis to get me one.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n I know that I\u2019m not alone under these circumstances. I just want to hear it.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n But the disheartening thing is that I don\u2019t know anyone in these circumstances. My friends and our generation itself are all so anti-kids or they have just one kid, or they\u2019re fortunate enough to have family and other free care to lend hands, that it really does feel sometimes that I am alone. \u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n All I want for Christmas is a single day where I can turn off dad mode and live like a regular human being for a day.\u00a0 <\/span>Sleep without an alarm. Past 7 am. Eat when I want to eat and not when #1 eats so she doesn\u2019t get pissed that I\u2019m eating without her. To have a moment where I realize that I can run, write, or workout or watch tv for an hour without getting interrupted. Not be on double duty with two kids by myself for 3-5 hours a day.\u00a0 <\/span>Not to have to deal with pets.\u00a0 <\/span>To have an evening where I don\u2019t have to sprint upstairs at a moments notice 3-5 times to pacify a kid because they can\u2019t stay asleep.<\/span><\/p>\n Just one fucking day.\u00a0 <\/span>Happy Kwanzaa\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n Oh, and my nanny just called in sick. Today\u2019s going to be awesome.\u00a0 <\/span>Happy Hanukkah\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" I should be happy and excited right now.\u00a0 I have received some very good personal news.\u00a0 But I\u2019m not.\u00a0 I can\u2019t be, because parenting two under two is soul sucking draining and there\u2019s no room in my life for anything me, because I\u2019m dealing with two crying kids all fucking day every fucking day and … Continue reading 2 Under 2: Days like today I\u2019m over parenting (#075)<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[36,193,104,71,29,73,101,37,192,105,77],"class_list":["post-48310","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-brog","tag-angst","tag-dad","tag-depression","tag-famiry","tag-fantasy","tag-friends","tag-holidays","tag-job","tag-kids","tag-rage","tag-ronery"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48310","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=48310"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48310\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":48312,"href":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48310\/revisions\/48312"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=48310"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=48310"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=48310"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}