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There are times in which my kids bring home artwork they create in school, and in the case of #1, budding artistic talent is starting to emerge in the sense that she can now create with a relative objective in mind, and this is a family portrait that she drew, and I\u2019ve been waiting her entire life for the day that she would create something like this.<\/span><\/p>\n I am going to frame it and cherish it forever.<\/span><\/p>\n But then there are all the other days in which my kids are absolute terrors, full of screaming, defiance, meltdowns, tantrums and more screaming, and sometimes I have to take a lot of deep breaths to try to not snap back at my children, and I ask mythical wife why we decided to have kids again?<\/span><\/p>\n In all fairness, most of the aggravating behavior is coming from #1 these days, and for as seemingly simple the supposed terrible twos were for us, it all seems to have held back until the age of four in this case.\u00a0 I didn\u2019t read enough dad literature to know if this is normal or not, but having a four and three-year old girls definitely has opened the door to its own unique set of challenges that I\u2019m just guessing are a progression of time and growth.<\/span><\/p>\n The funny thing is, as much as #1 has become more obtuse about certain things, #2 has more or less reversed roles and become the chill one between the girls, and as often as #1 melts down, #2 is the one that\u2019s usually cool as a cucumber in comparison and disposition.<\/span><\/p>\n Interestingly, and I should say unsurprising, a lot of this seems to stem from how much television we let the kids watch, as the vast majority of meltdowns typically start when it comes time to turn off the television and either take a break from screens, or get ready for bath time and bed, which has stretched even later, getting closer to 8 pm from 7, meaning I have even less time on a nightly basis to turn off dad mode and feel like a normal human being, that is when I\u2019m not burning that time resetting the home every single night.<\/span><\/p>\n But when we don\u2019t watch television, there\u2019s no conflict over turning it off, and more often than not, certain triggers can be avoided.\u00a0 But I\u2019d be lying if that\u2019s easier said than done, because sometimes, like when I need to prepare some meals for the kids, or just need a mental break for myself, an episode or two of a cartoon on Disney+ is just what I need in order to catch my breath, or buy time for something I need to do.<\/span><\/p>\n Either way, that\u2019s parenting in a nutshell right now, and as I often stated, I don\u2019t want Dad Brogs to only emerge when things are solely negative and I\u2019m just looking for an outlet to vent since I don\u2019t want to burden my actual human interactions to just spout off at how parenting is.<\/span><\/p>\n Things could be better, but they could also be worse; 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