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My subdivision is an interesting representation of what I think is reflective of the United States these days.\u00a0 There is seemingly a pretty divided line that separates those residents whom are either original owners of their properties, or are owners who have lived here for 25+ years, and then are all the people who are very much of the next generation of homeowners, like my household, and have lived in the neighborhood for anywhere from 8-9 or fewer years.<\/span><\/p>\n Unsurprising, there exists some very stark correlations to how they lean politically, easily represented by the political signs that are proudly propped up on the yards of many homeowners, and as we inch closer to the merciful November 5th<\/sup> election date, the intensity in which these wastes of resources are popping up, and it\u2019s evident that it\u2019s not so much how much they actually support these crooked politicians as much as they are wanting to subtly tell their neighbors that they oppose their choice in political affiliation.<\/span><\/p>\n But at the root of all these political pissing contest participants, are still human beings, human beings with feelings, human beings with care, human beings with intentions, and human beings who probably just want to exist in peace without too much bullshit in their lives.<\/span><\/p>\n One of my best friends and I, we couldn\u2019t possibly exist on opposite sides of the spectrums when it comes to political beliefs.\u00a0 They support a candidate, I don\u2019t care too much about politics but I don\u2019t really care for that person because of all the flagrantly racist and classist rhetoric that has been demonstrated.\u00a0 But my friend and I, we don\u2019t talk about politics, at all.\u00a0 I don\u2019t know if they even know that I disagree with their political choice, and frankly one of my biggest dreads is if one day they realize it and decide to sever our friendship because of it.<\/span><\/p>\n Regardless, I hold this person in the highest regard, we chat on a near daily basis and I\u2019d take a bullet for them.\u00a0 I like to think they feel similarly for me; because behind politics, we\u2019re still human beings.<\/span><\/p>\n I took my kids trick or treating on Halloween, because that\u2019s what we do as parents, and this was actually the first year that I took both girls out to trick or treat, and let them stay out past their bed times and be wandering around at night.\u00a0 My neighborhood is pretty awesome when it comes to trick or treating, and this was one of the things I always envisioned being in the future when I had moved into it, and it was pleasant to go around and watch my kids have fun and take part in a timeless tradition. \u00a0And all through the neighborhood were all sorts of other families and groups consisting of my neighbors, young and old doing the same thing; it was fun knowing that we were in a community full of kids that my kids will someday play with, go to school with, and grow up with.<\/span><\/p>\n On our return route, there was a home with an orange guy sign in their yard.\u00a0 Sitting out on their front stoop was the guy that lived there; older, white, male, sitting in lawn chair, carrying a bucket full of candy for kids, sitting between two lit jack-o-lanterns.\u00a0 Very evident that he was participating in giving out candy for the kids.<\/span><\/p>\n A group, consisting of two, maybe three households and all their kids, I watched as the kids slowed down and looked up at the home with the orange guy sign in the yard; and then proceeded to keep on walking, and going to the following house, that had no sign in front.\u00a0 None of the parents reacted, or encouraged the kids to go on and get free candy and ignore the sign up front.<\/span><\/p>\n Needless to say, when mythical wife and I approached the house, I encouraged my girls to go up the driveway, reminded them to say trick-or-treat and thank you, and hollered a thank you to the man myself, for being kind enough to be participating and giving candy to my kids.\u00a0 He was kind to my children, and I was grateful for his positive interaction with my kids.<\/span><\/p>\n I might not agree with his politics, but at the root of it, he\u2019s still a human being, and if he was being human enough to participate in a timeless tradition, then I would be human enough to send my children over to him and be gracious and polite and make him feel included.<\/span><\/p>\n I\u2019m not saying I\u2019m better than my neighbors or anyone else by my choice of actions or even writing about this scenario, but I do think that this was a microcosm of the divide in population that is plaguing America.\u00a0 Too many are making politics personal, and I can\u2019t say that I blame anyone for becoming jaded, lord knows I am too, but there are just times in which it\u2019s really easy to set politics aside and just being fucking normal people to one another.<\/span><\/p>\n That being said, there was one house that I avoided while trick-or-treating, as did pretty much everyone else did as well.\u00a0 The one that had a whole army of signs on their lawn, demonstrating a level of fanaticism that is outright scary obsessive, and raises questions to where they were on January 6, 2021.\u00a0 But politics aside, they\u2019re also a household that just one of those crabby neighbors who goes out of their way to be as unwelcoming as possible, and had no lights on, no pumpkins or any d\u00e9cor that wasn\u2019t orange in the holiday sense.<\/span><\/p>\n People like those, are kind of a lost cause, and them even not wanting to be nice to the kids of the community, makes it easy to acquiesce their desire to be isolated.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" My subdivision is an interesting representation of what I think is reflective of the United States these days.\u00a0 There is seemingly a pretty divided line that separates those residents whom are either original owners of their properties, or are owners who have lived here for 25+ years, and then are all the people who are … Continue reading A microcosm of societal problems<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[176,111,121,83,165,190],"class_list":["post-50263","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-brog","tag-murica","tag-halloween","tag-homeownership","tag-observations","tag-politics","tag-white-people"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50263","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=50263"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50263\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":50265,"href":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50263\/revisions\/50265"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=50263"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=50263"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=50263"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}