{"id":51268,"date":"2026-06-21T12:17:57","date_gmt":"2026-06-21T17:17:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/?p=51268"},"modified":"2026-06-03T22:18:05","modified_gmt":"2026-06-04T03:18:05","slug":"dad-brog-167-fathers-day-2026","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/?p=51268","title":{"rendered":"Dad Brog (#167): Father\u2019s Day 2026"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"border-image alignnone wp-image-51269\" src=\"http:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/bletday_2026.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"750\" srcset=\"https:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/bletday_2026.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/bletday_2026-240x300.jpg 240w, https:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/bletday_2026-819x1024.jpg 819w, https:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/bletday_2026-768x960.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\"><em>Year five of forever<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">Full disclosure, this photograph was taken about a full month before Father\u2019s Day.\u00a0 This post is being written in advance, by nearly a full month before Father\u2019s Day.\u00a0 Seeing as how would be abroad on actual Father\u2019s Day, I decided to knock this out a little early, so that it would not be looming over my head as a critical must-do, as my departure date drew nearer, so it was in my best interests to take it early, so I wouldn\u2019t have to rush the photo taking, editing, printing, and writing out the corresponding post.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">Plus it\u2019s one of the few things I look forward to more than anything in the world, so why not treat myself for a change, especially with the cesspool of S+ difficulty I deal with in my everyday life generally.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">Honestly, I still sometimes look at my kids and I can\u2019t believe that I\u2019m a dad.\u00a0 My girls are six and four, so I\u2019ve been a dad for a little while now, but sometimes it still feels surreal that I have contributed towards the creation of lives, and my offspring are already both going to be in elementary school together, start of the next school year.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">Even when they were tiny little nuggets of babies, it was hard to fathom what the future would look like, and how these kids would eventually be walking and talking, going to school and having their brains metaphorically exploding with all the knowledge and experience they\u2019d be coming into over the passage of time.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">Now, we have conversations regularly, they\u2019re always asking questions, and they can walk, talk, run, jump, and they love to play games and do puzzles and draw pictures and build with Legos.\u00a0 As the current school year came to a close, both brought home little booklets that showed a glimpse of time lapse of their handwriting and their drawing acumen throughout the course of the school year, and it\u2019s amazing to see just how much both of them had progressed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">They\u2019ll always be my babies, but make no mistake, they\u2019re two grown kids that have intelligence, personalities, capabilities and talents already.\u00a0 And I still can\u2019t believe that I had a hand in making them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">One thing I\u2019ve noticed more recently is the fact that my girls have slowly been phasing out \u201cdada\u201d and been more frequently referring to me as just \u201cdad.\u201d\u00a0 It hasn\u2019t been a full-on swap just yet, and dada still comes out from them both, although more from #2 than #1, but it has not gone unnoticed by me that I\u2019ve been hearing a lot more dad instead of dada.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">The thing is, I never coached or deterred them from use of one name or the other, it has been happening completely organically to my knowledge.\u00a0 But seeing as how both kids, their first words were dada, it unsurprisingly makes me feel a little melancholy to know that they\u2019re gradually phasing it out of their go-to vernacular.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/lapse-scaled.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-51270 \" src=\"http:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/lapse-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"601\" height=\"153\" srcset=\"https:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/lapse-scaled.jpg 2560w, https:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/lapse-300x76.jpg 300w, https:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/lapse-1024x260.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/lapse-768x195.jpg 768w, https:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/lapse-1536x391.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/lapse-2048x521.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 601px) 100vw, 601px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">Seeing as how we\u2019ve made it to year five of blet picture day, now seems as good of checkpoint as any to bust out the all-important time lapse.\u00a0 I\u2019ve long been a fan of great long term photo lapses, and this was always one of the sub-quests of doing an annual photo, to see just how rampant the growth of my children can be, and as anyone with eyes can see, my kids are no exception to the rule of just how much they grew between the first year and fifth years of blet picture day.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">As mentioned above, I do print these photos out, and I keep them in an album specifically meant to hold 8&#215;10\u2019s.\u00a0 Only one photo gets added a year, but it\u2019s already among my most precious treasures, and is definitely on the homeowner\u2019s list of things I\u2019d risk going into a burning house to retrieve, which is kind of silly, considering I have all the originals and I could reproduce this however many times I\u2019d want, but few things ever beat the OG.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">The album itself has enough pages to where my kids will be 31 and 29 by the time I reach the next cover.\u00a0 By then, I will be well into my 60s, but it will be the absolute ultimate lifetime achievement if we\u2019re all able to make it to the back of the album.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">The funny thing is, I\u2019m sure all of my zero readers have noticed that I\u2019m carrying a different blet in each image; obviously this is done intentionally, but the thing is, as many blets as I do have, I don\u2019t have enough to make it all the way to the other end, although I will be close.\u00a0 So it there were ever a reason to keep my eyes peeled for moar blets throughout the next two decades, this is it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">Until then, lots of random small questions exist, like when will my girls be able to shoot together, instead of me needing to take separate images, and composite them?\u00a0 When will the girls demand to be standing and posing, instead of plopped down into a chair and staying still?\u00a0 What different blets will come into my possession over the passage of time?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">Who knows the answers to any of these, but it will be likely entertaining and enjoyable for me to find out.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Year five of forever Full disclosure, this photograph was taken about a full month before Father\u2019s Day.\u00a0 This post is being written in advance, by nearly a full month before Father\u2019s Day.\u00a0 Seeing as how would be abroad on actual Father\u2019s Day, I decided to knock this out a little early, so that it would &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/totfc.net\/?p=51268\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Dad Brog (#167): Father\u2019s Day 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