{"id":51449,"date":"2026-08-12T21:46:45","date_gmt":"2026-08-13T02:46:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/?p=51449"},"modified":"2026-08-20T21:46:49","modified_gmt":"2026-08-21T02:46:49","slug":"if-only-i-were-in-my-30s-again","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/totfc.net\/?p=51449","title":{"rendered":"If only I were in my 30s again"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"border-image alignnone wp-image-51450 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/content_hardware.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"560\" height=\"313\" srcset=\"https:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/content_hardware.jpg 560w, https:\/\/totfc.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/content_hardware-300x168.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 560px) 100vw, 560px\" \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">There have been multiple times in my life in which I have thought that I was born in the wrong time.\u00a0 Like whenever I see professional gamers and how revered they are in Korea and how worshipped they are in the gaming community, I think to myself that maybe that could\u2019ve been me, had I been born in like ten years later than I was, where my parents wouldn\u2019t have discouraged and shamed my love of video games and instead nurtured and encouraged them, and maybe I could\u2019ve ended up like Faker or Daigo or some other professional gamer that makes millions of dollars playing video games and streaming video games today.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">Lately, I\u2019ve been having those similar thoughts again because for whatever reason, the social media algorithm has decided to start providing me reels of all these people who basically do nothing but film themselves, going around doing mundane things by themselves, but usually prefaced with a caption of \u201csingle 30-something does X in a day,\u201d and it\u2019s a 45-70 second reel of them going around, doing mundane things, with the underlying hook being that they\u2019re doing it peacefully and without anyone bothering them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">Grocery shopping, visiting some local restaurant, going on a run, hitting the gym, driving around, eating some more food, cooking food that they\u2019ll eat, getting and\/or drinking a fancy coffee; running some mundane errands but doing it at their own pace and leisure.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">These videos will all have hundreds to thousands of reactions, comments and seemingly very high engagement numbers, and although it might be all by bots, the stats are still stats, and undoubtedly these people are making money doing such.\u00a0 They all have templated formats, cold opens and tiny gimmicks, presumably to make them who they are, but at the root of things, they\u2019re still just doing mundane crap, and it just so happens that they\u2019re not all unattractive blobs of humanity, they\u2019re admittedly watchable.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">I just can\u2019t help but think that if I were in my 30s now, when I was single forever, and had pretty much nothing but time on my hands when I wasn\u2019t working, I could be in on this hustle, and be making a bunch of videos about my mundane life and presumably be getting paid to do it, and when I got tired of doing it, I\u2019d have a million bucks in my bank account to where I could have the seed money to perhaps embark on to my current life, but with moar capital backing me up.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">Seriously, I\u2019m not sure I could churn out content at the rate as many of these creators do, but I think about the things that I have done in my life throughout my 30s, and wonder if some things would be worth making content out of.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">30-year old single Korean-American travels to X to visit MLB team\/park\/city<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">A day in the life of a 31-year old Korean living in Atlanta<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">How a 32-year old single Korean guy prepares for standby travel<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">33-year old single Korean guy gets stranded in Minneapolis<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">Dragon*con with a 34-year old single Korean guy<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">35-year old Korean guy visits Korea for the very first time<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">Shit, I could do what a lot of the creators do now.\u00a0 Albeit perhaps with less of the extravagances they subtly like to flex, like how all their cars seem to be way high-end, or they have designer belongings, but I like to go to coffee shops and restaurants, and I could film myself walking into a gym or an H-Mart.\u00a0 Film myself going to my computer \u201cto work\u201d and all the other inane bullshit that all these creators do.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">And when the cameras aren\u2019t rolling, basking in the largely positive ratio of engagement scores that my content is generating, and waiting for all the digital media money to start rolling in, and encouraging me to keep going.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">Nah, instead I\u2019m in my mid-40s now, married with kids, and I\u2019m not saying that they\u2019re the reason why I couldn\u2019t embark on a new career of being a content creator, it\u2019s just that I know that content creation is an largely, wholly time-consuming endeavor to embark on, and personally it\u2019s more important to be present with my family and children versus getting caught up in the rat race of trying to produce, film, edit, and post content, and knowing my luck, by the time I get the machine rolling, the content creation bubble will pop, and it won\u2019t be nearly as lucrative then as it is now.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">And ironically, the new moneyball of making money, would be getting a fucking job, doing it, and getting these periodic things called paychecks.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">But, nothing is ever going to change until I get in on things, because I am begrudgingly the master of the universe, and nothing happens until I decide to get involved.\u00a0 If I did what the single 30s somethings are doing today, it probably wouldn\u2019t be nearly as monetarily viable as it is now.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There have been multiple times in my life in which I have thought that I was born in the wrong time.\u00a0 Like whenever I see professional gamers and how revered they are in Korea and how worshipped they are in the gaming community, I think to myself that maybe that could\u2019ve been me, had I &hellip; 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